軍佬講故事第一篇《軍旅生涯有苦有樂》

原帖由 Tarty. 於 3-9-2008 13:55 發表
I enjoy reading your articles very much. They are very touching, yet not in a sad way. I was only hoping to give back a little.

Honestly, i dared not go on with pointing out the typos, as nitpicking ...
paul story is not only touching but also encouraging ...

paul, you keep writing ... i keep reading and promoting



[ 本帖最後由 8uncle 於 10-9-2008 16:39 編輯 ]
8uncle,,,Thanks your praise. In fact, my hard-time was gone..Now I'm very enjoying my life with my wonderful family..
Sure that I'll keep writing..

[ 本帖最後由 Aussie_li 於 10-9-2008 16:56 編輯 ]

Kung Hei Fat Choy

Dear Paul,

Firstly, I hope you have a joyous and prosperous year

of the OX. By the way thank you so much the

website is very essential for us to express

and share the idea. Otherwise you have

hundred correct you collected the medal in

the stonecutter Island in 1989.  I remembered SSGT  Chow

stood behind you. At that time I thought you

how to overcome thd difficulty and challenge ahead.

Most important how to raise your family......At that time

it made me hard feeeling .Inevitably you have a iron guy .

Secondly, I think you  have backup support like your wife. In addition

you have a optimistic . This is why you can figure out your problem more

smoothly.

Chan
Dear Chan

Thanks your praise! 1989,,,to 2009, twenty years gone! My disability is been to my life,,.. I getting used to it since I'm well cared by my wonderful wife. My two sons are grown and independent. Now I'm enjoying peaceful and further education study in Melbourne.

There're few parts to my story...Please read them for sharing.

Inspiration for me

Hi Paul,

It is goog to note that you are enjoy your life and family.

It is no secret that optimists tend to be happier people.

Paul, Can you share some experience with me?

As you previously mentioned never impossible..

If I pursue goal and ambition but the success is

not end result.  Therefore it makes me disatisfied often.

My wife suggests me that If I not set any goal in my life

I will be more happier than before. Do you agree ?

Chan

My theme on goal achievement.

Dear Chan,
According what you’d said above, I believe that you’re a very self discipline and high expectation man… it might the consequence of your army training. Majority of soldiers are that stubborn!
Lets share my experience with you on treating an unfulfilled expectation. I always split a long-team goal into few stages as Primary-goal; secondary-goal & final achievement, once a primary target is met I would reward myself a little like buy my wife a small gift etc, (because making my family happy is most joyful to me). Go along this path but if sometimes the goal is not achieved, just analyse it and learn the reason but do not blame anyone including myself. Because that I understand nothing is 100% estimated. At that stage, discuss with family or good friends for advice. Don’t forget to ask your children’s idea on decision making for family affairs. If the problem concerns yourself or partner, wife’s decision must be repected.

So I always do the things that I love to do. And never do things I dislike and harm the third-party. It’s my theme!

Thanks a lot

Hi Paul,

Thank you for your suggestion. From today I will set a goal for myself again

No matter how hard I will towards the direction.

Paul I tell you an interesting something next time which involve

in my work.

Take Care,

Chan
Chan,,

You're always welcome to share with me. Plus please do write more your experience on Custom job or opinion on army life before at our hkmsc forum.

best wish
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